OK sis, i found your group, joined and posted the little tongue in cheek bite of a tale. It's funny, I wrote that story about six years ago, never knew I may be writing it for someone in my future. Love the twists and turns of fate. Just goes to prove my point of NOTHING IS COINCEDENTAL ;)
I will be on here tomorrow and can attempt to show you how to link, but the damn html disappears everytime I try to explain it to someone. Another member showed me through my email how it's done, it's the only way she could get it to me. It's a pain at first, but once you get it you never forget it. Gotta go, or hubby is going to be pissy over my time on here today. HUgs
I was just a witness to it, she suffered more with the decision. In the end, the old anorexia got the better of her, she starved herself to death and died in her sleep at a mere 60lbs. She was the lightest bone dove. I miss her.
Hey sis, thanks for flying in and for those words. People like him rarely bother me, but the hipocrosy of everything he upchucked all over the post really pissed me off, and I don't take kindly to being called names.
It went Soooo much better than I feared it would. Just a quick share before I make myself turn in... On his last day, Zak was surrounded by a swarm of, his mother says, around 100 dragonflies. He was laughing and playing with them. So, dragonflies became a theme at his memorial. His urn is decorated with one, and we made cards with my poem and a picture of dragonflies. After his mother spoke today, she opened it up for anyone to share or say whatever they would like and as we each took turns speaking... a couple of dragonflies came over and hovered around our circle. He was there, saying goodbye and letting us know he loves us. Sure, I'd rather have not had this kind of day but since we had to have it, I wouldn't have had it any other way.
Thanks for asking Robin. It was a long and difficult day, although everything went as well as could possibly be expected. (Zak's memorial today). I'll talk a bit about it later. I've got to be getting to bed as I start work tomorrow. :( It's gonna be a long couple of days... but I see little reminders from Zak everywhere and it makes everything easier.
Why, of course I do, my sister =) Lillith was going to be my first daughter's name until her father decided he wanted to name her traditional. I am very familiar with Lillith.
